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大學被父母迫讀商科無奈妥協 網民:點解我冇權利選擇?
22 Feb 2021


不少父母都望子成龍,寄予厚望,但是聆聽子女內心的聲音和想法其實亦很重要。一名網民指自己一直想讀心理學,但父母期望她讀商科,於是最後選擇妥協。最近與父母再談起碩士學位的選科,她表明自己仍想修讀心理學,但再遭到反對,令她非常煩惱。



該名網民於Dcard討論區上以「有冇人都係被父母插手自己嘢好煩」為題出帖,她指自己「由中學開始就好想讀psycho(心理學)」,但因當時文憑試不夠分,故打算經副學士再升讀大學的心理學課程。

當時父母得知後極力反對,更令大家因此事而「搞到好僵」,網民只好無奈妥協修讀商科,「個心其實都仲成日掛住psycho」。

到近日,網民跟父母談到想修讀碩士學位,並表明仍然很想修讀心理學,但父母仍然反對,「佢地都仲系話一定要MBA,話唔好同佢讀咩psycho」,令網民非常無奈。


圖片來源:網絡

網民批評,「個書係我自己讀翻黎嘅,個gpa係我自己努力翻黎嘅,master我讀啲咩點解我冇權利選擇?」她又大斥父母的觀念,「成日話淨系讀商先有用搵到錢,咁啲大學全部開曬啲商科得啦?」她更稱,「如果我當時堅持立場,真係覺得自己會去到更好嘅u…

帖子引來網民熱議,不少人認為樓主應該按自己的喜好讀書,指「孝順同愚孝係兩回事嚟,加上你已經大個有自己嘅思考,其實讀咩科呢啲本來就應該係你自己選擇嘅」、「依家你讀到master都咁聽話,一陣讀完又要你做邊份工,然後你人生就完啦,要學識獨立靠自己同相信自己」。

 

資料來源:星島日報、Dcard

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